Eph. 4:15-16 Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.
There are times that we allow our thoughts and desires to be the leading force of our conversation. Sometimes we fail to evaluate the way in which we deliver our message. There are messages that we must deliver that are difficult to give, but is needed for spiritual correction. The Bible gives the motivation behind such discussions and that is love. There is also a reason for using love and that is to build up the body, the church. We can also use this when older women and younger women communicate. It is very necessary for mothers and daughters to have their conversations drenched in love.